Bible verses about forgiveness: 17 passages for when letting go feels impossible
The Bible says God forgives everyone who comes to him honestly (1 John 1:9) and removes our sins as far as the east is from the west (Psalm 103:12). Because we have been forgiven, we are called to forgive others (Ephesians 4:32), again and again (Matthew 18:21-22), while leaving final justice to God (Romans 12:19). These passages are shown in the Berean Standard Bible, with the King James wording alongside.
When you need to be forgiven
If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.1 John 1:9 (BSB)
Faithful and just: God’s justice is not an obstacle to your forgiveness here, it is the ground of it, because Christ has already paid.
King James Version
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.He has not dealt with us according to our sins or repaid us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is His loving devotion for those who fear Him. As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us.Psalm 103:10-12 (BSB)
Travel north and you eventually start heading south, but east and west never meet. The distance is meant to be immeasurable.
King James Version
He hath not dealt with us after our sins; nor rewarded us according to our iniquities. For as the heaven is high above the earth, so great is his mercy toward them that fear him. As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us.“Come now, let us reason together,” says the LORD. “Though your sins are like scarlet, they will be as white as snow; though they are as red as crimson, they will become like wool.Isaiah 1:18 (BSB)
Let us reason together is courtroom language. Scarlet and crimson were fast dyes that would not wash out, which is exactly the point.
King James Version
Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.For the choirmaster. A Psalm of David. When Nathan the prophet came to him after his adultery with Bathsheba. Have mercy on me, O God, according to Your loving devotion; according to Your great compassion, blot out my transgressions. Wash me clean of my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin.Psalm 51:1-2 (BSB)
David prayed this after the prophet Nathan confronted him over Bathsheba. He appeals to nothing in himself, only to God’s loving devotion and compassion.
King James Version
To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David, when Nathan the prophet came unto him, after he had gone in to Bath-sheba. Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy lovingkindness: according unto the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions. Wash me throughly from mine iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin.Who is a God like You, who pardons iniquity and passes over the transgression of the remnant of His inheritance— who does not retain His anger forever, because He delights in loving devotion? He will again have compassion on us; He will vanquish our iniquities. You will cast out all our sins into the depths of the sea.Micah 7:18-19 (BSB)
Micah’s own name means Who is like the LORD, and he ends his book by answering it. Sins thrown into the depths of the sea are not coming back.
King James Version
Who is a God like unto thee, that pardoneth iniquity, and passeth by the transgression of the remnant of his heritage? he retaineth not his anger for ever, because he delighteth in mercy. He will turn again, he will have compassion upon us; he will subdue our iniquities; and thou wilt cast all their sins into the depths of the sea.So he got up and went to his father. But while he was still in the distance, his father saw him and was filled with compassion. He ran to his son, embraced him, and kissed him.Luke 15:20 (BSB)
In that culture a respected older man did not run. The father in Jesus’ story does, before his son has finished a word of his speech.
King James Version
And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.When you are struggling to forgive someone
For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive yours.Matthew 6:14-15 (BSB)
Jesus says this right after teaching the Lord’s Prayer. Of all its lines, forgiveness is the one he stops to underline.
King James Version
For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not just seven times, but seventy-seven times!Matthew 18:21-22 (BSB)
Peter thought seven times was generous. Jesus’ answer (seventy times seven in the KJV) is not a higher limit to count toward but a way of saying stop counting.
King James Version
Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.Bear with one another and forgive any complaint you may have against someone else. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.Colossians 3:13 (BSB)
Bear with one another covers the small daily irritations; forgive covers the real wrongs. Both are measured against how the Lord forgave you.
King James Version
Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.Ephesians 4:32 (BSB)
Paul puts forgiveness alongside kindness and a tender heart. It is less a single moment than a way of treating people.
King James Version
And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.When the hurt runs deep
Forgiving someone does not mean saying what they did was fine, and it does not always mean trusting them again. It means handing the debt to God instead of collecting it yourself.
But Joseph replied, “Do not be afraid. Am I in the place of God? As for you, what you intended against me for evil, God intended for good, in order to accomplish a day like this—to preserve the lives of many people.Genesis 50:19-20 (BSB)
Joseph’s brothers had sold him into slavery. Years later, afraid he would take revenge once their father died, they heard this instead.
King James Version
And Joseph said unto them, Fear not: for am I in the place of God? But as for you, ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to bring to pass, as it is this day, to save much people alive.Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Carefully consider what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone. Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but leave room for God’s wrath. For it is written: “Vengeance is Mine; I will repay, says the Lord.”Romans 12:17-19 (BSB)
Paul says if it is possible, and as far as it depends on you. He is realistic that peace is not always in your hands. Justice is not cancelled; it is left with God.
King James Version
Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.Then Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” And they divided up His garments by casting lots.Luke 23:34 (BSB)
Jesus prayed this while he was being crucified. The prayer came before any apology from those who were killing him.
King James Version
Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do. And they parted his raiment, and cast lots.When you cannot forgive yourself
Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.Romans 8:1 (BSB)
Paul writes this straight after describing his own struggle with sin in Romans 7. No condemnation is spoken to people who still fail.
King James Version
There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.For I will forgive their iniquities and will remember their sins no more.”Hebrews 8:12 (BSB)
Quoted from the new covenant promise in Jeremiah 31. God does not lose his memory; he chooses never to hold it against you.
King James Version
For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I remember no more.Then I acknowledged my sin to You and did not hide my iniquity. I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the LORD,” and You forgave the guilt of my sin. SelahPsalm 32:5 (BSB)
In the verses just before, David describes how keeping silent wore him down. Relief came the moment he stopped hiding.
King James Version
I acknowledged my sin unto thee, and mine iniquity have I not hid. I said, I will confess my transgressions unto the LORD; and thou forgavest the iniquity of my sin. Selah.Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away. Behold, the new has come!2 Corinthians 5:17 (BSB)
If God calls you a new creation, holding on to the old verdict against yourself is disagreeing with him.
King James Version
Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.How to begin forgiving
- Be specific about the wrong. Write down what happened and what it cost you. Forgiveness is not vague; you cannot release a debt you will not name.
- Remember what you have been forgiven. Read Psalm 103:10-12 slowly. Forgiving others grows out of being forgiven.
- Pray for the person. Even a short, reluctant prayer, as Jesus did in Luke 23:34, starts to loosen the grip of resentment.
- Say it again when it comes back. Feelings often return. That does not mean you failed; it means you forgive again, as Matthew 18:22 expects.
Some wounds are too heavy to carry alone. A pastor or counsellor can walk with you, and in Versiah you can talk through what happened and ask what Scripture says, with every answer pointing to verses you can read for yourself.
Forgiving someone never means staying where you are being harmed. If you are in danger, please contact someone you trust or your local emergency number.
Questions people ask
What does the Bible say about forgiveness?
The Bible says God freely forgives those who confess their sins (1 John 1:9, Psalm 32:5) and does not hold them against us (Psalm 103:12, Hebrews 8:12). It then calls forgiven people to forgive others as God forgave them (Ephesians 4:32, Colossians 3:13).
Is it a sin not to forgive?
Jesus takes unforgiveness seriously, saying in Matthew 6:14-15 that those who refuse to forgive others cut themselves off from forgiveness. At the same time, forgiveness is often a process, and struggling to forgive is not the same as refusing. Bringing the struggle to God honestly is the right first step.
Does forgiving someone mean I have to reconcile with them?
Not always. Forgiveness is releasing the debt; reconciliation needs both people and usually requires trust to be rebuilt. Romans 12:18 says live at peace if it is possible and as far as it depends on you, which recognises that sometimes it is not.
What does the Bible say about forgiving yourself?
The phrase is not in the Bible, but the idea is. If God has forgiven you and there is no condemnation for those in Christ (Romans 8:1), you are free to stop punishing yourself. Confess it, make amends where you can, and accept that God’s verdict is final.
Which Bible translation is used on this page?
Each passage is shown in the Berean Standard Bible (BSB), a modern public-domain translation, with the King James Version (KJV) under it. In Matthew 18:22 the BSB says seventy-seven times and the KJV says seventy times seven; either way the point is not to keep count.
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